Showing posts with label R2I regrets. Show all posts
Showing posts with label R2I regrets. Show all posts

Friday, July 12, 2013

R2I irritants ...

Ok, let's look into what are the irritants for R2Is, as I mentioned in my last blog entry. Several things can be irritants once you R2I, specially those things which can't be changed easily ...

One thing that always bothers you is how much care is taken about surroundings in western countries and how much it is disregarded here. Fact is that these things are unlikely to change in the near term. Worst thing is our country has all the potential to address these issues - we have educated people, there is enough money in the system but we don't see things changing.  Unfortunately unqualified people are ruling and government intervention is required to make these changes - view of nice getting filled up with dirt, trash, without any regard to the fact that these are the critical water resources irritates you.

When it comes to service, things are improving but it is still bad - for ex, you don't see people lining up in a bank or post office and see 5 people standing right next to the service table. And the banks don't enforce this, which can be done so easily. So, you have to rush even though you don't want to do it. Also, if you buy something, sellers are nice until you buy them. Once you bought it, you are on your own. 

When it comes to public sector, there can be lot of irritants - unfortunately, political system doesn't have the will to address these issues. When the average worth of an MLA is 10 Crore Rs, why would they have public interest to serve people?. They just need power and want to enjoy their term. Again, case of where there is a potential for things to get fixed but there is no will and that bothers you.

There are many other small things which I had listed - lack of footpaths makes it hard to walk in any place. Noise on roads is irritating but you get used to it. Driving habits of people drives you bit crazy since following rules is the last priority(I have heard Bangalore is much more civilized when it comes to this and places like New Delhi can be really bad).  You may be right but that hardly matters.

Overall, main irritant is - you see that there is a potential for things to change but they don't happen. What disappoints is - Bangalore is a city with high number of educated population but it is hard for them to change things. However, you do see ray of hopes like people in localities getting together to clean up the lakes, clean up the footpaths etc. But, these are drops in the ocean. What we need is some major surgery to fix things from a right administration - and you know that won't happen in the near future!



Saturday, June 1, 2013

Reader's question - do you regret your R2I decision?

There was a question from one of the readers - "do you regret your R2I decision, now having made the R2I?". Thought this will be a very relevant question for many of the folks thinking about R2I. So, some thoughts on this ...

One of my friend's said while I was in US - "if you are 95% sure that you want to be back in India, don't come back"! That's very true - you need to be 99% sure that you want to be here to make the R2I. Reasons being several - there are somethings that you can't simply get here and those are out of your control. Examples being, nice parks, footpaths, nice roads where you don't need to worry about commute, discipline and order in things etc. There is no way these things can change in the near term, read, in your lifetime :-).

From my personal point of view, do I regret the R2I decision? Absolutely not, from my point of view. However, your 'mileage' may vary, as I mention below.

However, as I mentioned in my initial blog entries, R2I is a very personal decision. I was 100% sure that this is something I want to do and something that would be good for the kids. In that light, I enjoy things which were not available earlier like frequent visits to parents, kids mingling with cousins and family, Indian food, "feel of at home" etc. Fortunately, kids have adjusted to the Indian climate and don't fall sick as often. We do take precautions like avoiding road side food, not drinking water outside except bottled water etc. Also, the US style malls are abundant in Bangalore there days, which give access to latest movies, bowling, pizza, berger etc - to keep the kids connected to US.

However, same thing may not be true for lots of families or even for your family members. Dealing with the chaos here may seem like a headache for lots of people and knowing the problems will persist, may become a ongoing pain.

In summary, one person's enjoyment of R2I may not be true for another person - it all depends on your perspective and what you want out of R2I. If staying in India is the strong reason, it is very likely that you will enjoy the R2I and make it work for you.

So, no regrets? No - there are but more of irritants and I will cover those in my next post.

If you are still in-doubt, take this assessment I posted a while back and access yourself to see what factors drive your R2I decision. These are the factors that drive your R2I stay here in India as well once you are here...
http://r2idiaries.blogspot.in/2011/12/r2i-or-nr2i-not-to-r2i-dilemma-take.htm